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Proto je to takov\u00e1 starost, nav\u00edc pokud m\u00e1te...<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/jak-mit-spokojene-dite\/\" class=\"more-link\">P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Jak m\u00edt spokojen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b?&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2023-03-19","dateModified":"2023-08-17","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06473a178d94fb830b46e277369729e9534f2612e261ec2f1ee96b672ef473e2?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kolgas.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/cuddly-toys-7596017__340%20(1).jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/cuddly-toys-7596017__340%20(1).jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/jak-mit-spokojene-dite\/","about":["Byt a d\u016fm"],"wordCount":459,"articleBody":"        Kdy\u017e si n\u011bkdo chce po\u0159\u00eddit d\u00edt\u011b, m\u011bl by si to je\u0161t\u011b rozmyslet, a to nejen kv\u016fli tomu, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b s sebou p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed plno povinnost\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 proto, \u017ee vy mus\u00edte d\u00edt\u011b dob\u0159e vychovat, aby z n\u011bj byl dobr\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd nikomu v \u017eivot\u011b neubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, jako n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jedinci. Proto je to takov\u00e1 starost, nav\u00edc pokud m\u00e1te d\u00edt\u011b, mus\u00edte zahodit plno va\u0161ich radost\u00ed a \u010das v\u011bnovat sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti. A pr\u00e1v\u011b v\u00fdchova je v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b dost kontroverzn\u00ed t\u00e9ma, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b vychov\u00e1v\u00e1 jinak, n\u011bkdo nedojde pro v\u00fdchovnou facku daleko a n\u011bkdo ji naprosto odsuzuje. Ka\u017ed\u00fd jsme jin\u00fd, a proto taky ka\u017ed\u00fd jinak vychov\u00e1v\u00e1me sv\u00e9 ratolesti. Co je ale spr\u00e1vn\u011b, kde je pravda, aby bylo d\u00edt\u011b spokojen\u00e9.Spokojenost rozhodn\u011b nepramen\u00ed z toho, \u017ee mu d\u00e1te v\u00fdchovnou facku, to opravdu nikam nevede. Nav\u00edc mu ukazujete, \u017ee ml\u00e1tit druh\u00e9 je spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a pozd\u011bji bude d\u011blat to sam\u00e9 on ve \u0161kole slab\u0161\u00edm lidem a d\u011btem a bude z n\u011bj p\u0159esn\u011b ten zl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd \u0161ikanuje ostatn\u00ed. To chcete? Nechcete. Nebude spokojen\u00fd ani on, proto\u017ee pak na n\u011bj budou ve \u0161kole st\u00ed\u017enosti a ani u\u010ditelky ho nebudou m\u00edt r\u00e1dy. Takov\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 pak deprese a je agresivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00edc a v\u00edc. Na to si opravdu d\u00e1vejte pozor a sna\u017ete se vychov\u00e1vat bez zbyte\u010dn\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed a agrese, proto ani po d\u00edt\u011bti nek\u0159i\u010dte a sna\u017ete se v\u0161e vy\u0159e\u0161it v klidu.D\u00e1vejte d\u00edt\u011bti tak\u00e9 pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1 n\u011bjakou svou volbu. Nechte to zasahovat do n\u00e1vrhu d\u011btsk\u00fdch pokoj\u016f, aby m\u011bl pocit, \u017ee si ho navrhnul s\u00e1m a vy budete r\u00e1di, \u017ee tam m\u00e1 naopak n\u011bco, co se mu samotn\u00e9mu l\u00edb\u00ed a co tam s\u00e1m chce. Kdy\u017e tak ho nechte vybrat barvu st\u011bn, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b ho nechejte vybrat n\u00e1bytek, kter\u00fd se mu l\u00edb\u00ed. Nav\u00edc ho tak i p\u0159iprav\u00edte na budouc\u00ed \u017eivot, kdy se bude muset s\u00e1m rozhodovat a nebude to ten typ \u010dlov\u011bka, co je nerozhodn\u00fd. Nutno ale \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00e1 a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u00fapln\u011b \u0161patn\u00e1. Ka\u017ed\u00fd vychov\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b podle sv\u00fdch mo\u017enost\u00ed, ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je d\u00edt\u011bti uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee k n\u011bmu m\u00e1te tak\u00e9 respekt a \u017ee ho nebudete ml\u00e1tit jen proto, \u017ee je to d\u00edt\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak m\u00edt spokojen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b?","item":"https:\/\/www.kolgas.cz\/jak-mit-spokojene-dite\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]